Pastor Rick Hudgens | Discovering True Friendship

Today we conclude the two part series on "FACEBOOK: Seeking Authentic Community" as we discover the meaning of true friendships. How can we find true friendship in this often phony, temporary world?

True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of
judgment or negative criticism. True friendship involves relationship. Many people say, "Oh, he's a good friend of mine," yet they never take time to spend time with that "good friend." Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other's growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine
friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. God's Word tells us that a friend sticks closer than a brother, and that in order for one to be a friend, one must show themselves friendly (Proverbs 18:24). The question is: what type of friend do you desire to be?

Do you need a friend? God wants to be your true friend. Are you longing for companionship? God is always with you (Hebrews 13:5). Who do you know who needs a true friend today? God wants you to befriend others. He calls us to be His hands and feet in a world starving for true friendship.

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Pastor Rick Hudgens | Facebook

Facebook is a social utility that connects people with friends and others who work, study and live around them. People use Facebook to keep up with friends, upload an unlimited number of photos, share links and videos, and learn more about the people they meet.

Mark Zuckerberg founded Facebook while still a student at Harvard University. Website membership was initially limited to only Harvard students, but was soon expanded to the entire Ivy League. Later it expanded further to include any university student, then high school students, and finally to anyone aged 13 and over.

The website has more than 69 million active users worldwide. From September 2006 to September 2007, the website's ranking among all websites, in terms of traffic, increased from 70th to seventh. It is also the most popular website for uploading photos, with 60 million uploaded daily. Facebook is currently the top social networking site in many Commonwealth nations such as Canada and the United Kingdom. (Source: Wikipedia.org)

Pastor Rick takes us to John 12:1-3 and shares with us three components of intimacy. God has created us with a need to know others; be known by others and be known by God. God has designed us for intimacy with Himself and with others.

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Pastor Rick Hudgens | Back to the Mountain Top

“Then Moses climbed Mount Nebo from the plains of Moab to the top of Pisgah, across from Jericho. There the Lord showed him the whole land…” Deuteronomy 34:1a (NIV)

Over the Lenten season, we have been traveling to Mountain Tops of faith. We began at Mount Moriah where faith was tested and we were strengthened with the assurance that God sees our situations in life and provides the answers we seek. We visited Mount Sinai where we grasp the love and care God has for us in his gracious covenant he made with his people. At Mt. Carmel we were reminded that faith is called for in the times of opposition and trouble. Stopping at Mt. Zion and on to Mt. Olivet where Jesus taught us to pray in the garden of Gethsemane and then to Mt. Calvary where Jesus gave to us the greatest price he could have paid, for the greatest need we shall ever have. Then we celebrated Resurrection Sunday here at North Raleigh.

Today we return to another mountain top as Pastor Rick preaches a landmark sermon at North Raleigh. In the book series entitled "Mastering Ministry’s Pressure Points," Jack Hayford writes: "Strong leaders are known for their landmark sermons (and sometimes lynched for them). Landmark sermons are the defining moments of a church and a pastor. Without them there are no boundaries, no rallying points…”

Pastor Rick will speak about our present realities and how we can face the days ahead with faith for the future.


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